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  • Writer's pictureDr Dagbue

Case Dismissed: A Lesson in Grace

Updated: Oct 20, 2023

a picture of A school principal's office with a worried student standing beside a calm, understanding father

Welcome back to the Health for the Spirit, Soul, and Body blog! Today, I invite you to join me as we delve into the boundless realm of God's grace and forgiveness. Grace, as we've come to understand, is the unmerited favor of God, a gift we could never earn but is generously given. Through personal reflections and biblical narratives, we'll explore how grace, when genuinely received, can catalyze profound transformation in our lives.

A Personal Reflection

During my Form 2-year, equivalent to Grade 8, there arose an incident that stands out prominently in my memory. For the first and only time, my father was summoned to the school by the principal due to a transgression on my part. The weight of my wrongdoing bore heavily upon me, and as the details unfolded, it became clear that I was squarely at fault. My father, displaying admirable composure, accepted responsibility on my behalf. He assured the principal that he would address the matter at home, ensuring I understood the gravity of my actions. Upon our return home, I mentally prepared for what seemed to be an inevitable punishment. However, my father chose an alternative approach. Instead of penalizing me, he proposed to forgo any punishment, contingent upon my guarantee that such an incident would never recur. The overwhelming sense of relief and gratitude I felt in that moment was profound. Looking back, I know that no punishment could have been as transformative as that act of grace. This experience underscores the notion that sometimes understanding, and trust offer more powerful lessons than punitive measures.

The Bible on Grace

The Bible has many stories that emphasize the power of forgiveness and grace.

  • The Prodigal Son Story: A younger son demands his inheritance early, wastes it on reckless living, and returns home in shame. Instead of punishment, his father welcomes him with open arms, expressing joy that his lost son has returned. Scripture: Luke 15:11-32, especially verse 24: “For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.”

  • Jesus and the Woman Caught in Adultery Story: A woman caught in adultery was brought to Jesus by the Pharisees, expecting her to be condemned. Jesus responds by challenging anyone without sin to cast the first stone. When no one does, he tells the woman that he does not condemn her and instructs her to sin no more. Scripture: John 8:3-11, especially verse 11: “Neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”

  • Jesus and Peter’s Denial Story: Peter denies knowing Jesus three times before the rooster crows, just as Jesus had predicted. After the resurrection, instead of rebuking Peter, Jesus reaffirms His love for him and commissions Peter to “feed His sheep.” Scripture: John 21:15-17, especially verse 17: “The third time he said to him, ‘Simon son of John, do you love me?’ Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’ He said, ‘Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.’ Jesus said, ‘Feed my sheep.’”

Each of these stories show the transformative power of forgiveness and grace, emphasizing that sometimes mercy has a greater impact than punishment.

Acceptance of Grace and Moving Forward

Apostle Paul’s journey is a profound illustration of the significance of embracing grace and forging a new path forward. Before his conversion, Paul, then known as Saul, was notorious for his relentless persecution of Christians. He even played a role in the martyrdom of Stephen (Acts 7:58). However, after his transformative encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:1-9), Paul became a fervent disciple. What’s remarkable is how Paul internalized the grace he received. He chose not to be bound by his past but to harness its lessons to propel his ministry. In Philippians 3:13-14, Paul writes, “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” Paul’s narrative underscores the transformative power of grace when fully accepted and the importance of moving forward with its strength.


The beauty of grace is that it doesn't just erase our past mistakes but offers a promise of hope for the future. It challenges us to look beyond our shortcomings and to live a life worthy of the love and mercy we've been granted. As we journey on, let us be reminded to extend this same grace to others, reflecting the love of Christ in our actions and words.

Have you experienced a transformative moment of grace in your life? How has it shaped your journey? I invite you to share your comments or related experiences below. Let's encourage and uplift one another in the knowledge that God's grace is ever abundant and always renewing.

Until our next episode, may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. God Bless you


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