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What Road Are You On? Discover the Narrow Road to Victory

  • Writer: Dr Dagbue
    Dr Dagbue
  • Jul 13
  • 4 min read
Forest trail with lush greenery on the right. Text on the left reads "WHAT ROAD ARE YOU ON? Find your path to victory" on a blue background.

Choosing the Narrow Road to Victory—Even When It’s Lonely 


Welcome to another episode of the Health for the Spirit, Soul, and Body Blog from Doxa Missions. Today, we’re looking at a question Jesus posed by implication: “What road are you on?” His words in Matthew 7:13-14 point to two very different paths. One is wide, crowded, and comfortable; the other is narrow, rugged, and travelled by few. Yet only the narrow path leads to real, lasting life—and, as we’ll see, to genuine success in every arena. 


Matthew 7: 13-14 (KJV) “Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in there at: (14) Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.” 

In our results obsessed society, the wide road often comes with glossy route maps and step by step directions: “Get rich quick,” “Take the shortcut,” “Blend in.” But Jesus warns that the crowd-pleasing route ends in emptiness. By contrast, the narrow road to victory is filled with obstacles—doubts, delays, disappointments—which we must push through if we hope to arrive at our God appointed destination. It’s also a lonely journey, because not many people will be on it with you


Below are three biblical portraits that illuminate why the narrow way is worth every painful, glorious mile. 

 

1. Job—Integrity on the Road of Pain 

Few stretches of any journey feel bleaker than Job’s ash heap. Overnight he lost wealth, health, and family. His own wife, understandably devastated, urged him to “curse God, and die” (Job 2: 9). She honestly believed ending the agony was the best route forward—an exit off the narrow road. 


Job’s reply was both gentle and resolute: 

“Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil?” (Job 2:10 KJV) 

Job clung to God’s character when no map made sense. Integrity was the obstacle clearing tool that allowed him to keep inching forward. The result? Restoration double what he lost (Job 42:10,17). The narrow road to victory demanded pain but culminated in blessing that the wide road could never deliver. 

 

2. Elisha—Persistence When Your Mentors Disappear 

Next, consider Elisha. Everyone—everyone—kept telling him Elijah would be taken away that very day. The “sons of the prophets” meant well: “Why keep following the man when he’s about to vanish?” (2 Kings 2:3, 5). Conventional wisdom shouted: “Save your energy; turn back!” Yet Elisha’s heart said, “As the Lord liveth… I will not leave thee.” 

Because he persisted, he witnessed Elijah’s chariot ascent, caught the fallen mantle, and received a double portion of prophetic anointing (2 Kings 2:9,15). Had he stepped off the narrow path—even minutes before the finish—he would have forfeited destiny. 

 

3. Shadrach, Meshach & Abednego—Conviction in the Fire 

Our third example finds us in Babylon. Israelite captives were offered the empire’s finest wine, education, and prestige. Most gladly assimilated. Three young Hebrews, however, chose the narrow road: no compromise, no idolatry, no bowing to a golden image (Daniel 3). Their reward? A death sentence in a superheated furnace. 

Yet in the very flames, a fourth Man—one “like the Son of God” (Daniel 3:25 KJV)—walked beside them. Not a hair singed, they emerged honored and promoted by the same king who condemned them (Daniel 3:30). The narrow way looked suicidal; in reality, it paved the path to supernatural favor. 

 

Why the Narrow Road Is Still the Right Road 


  1. It shapes godly character. Obstacles are not random roadblocks; they are divine gyms where faith, patience, and humility gain muscle. 

  2. It filters motives. When applause is scarce, you discover whether you serve God for benefits or relationship. 

  3. It sets you up for multiplied impact. Every story above ends with influence expanding far beyond the traveler’s own life. 


Paul summarizes the principle: 

Galatians 6: 9 (KJV) “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” 


Notice the phrase “due season.” On the narrow road, seasons may drag, but harvest is guaranteed—if we keep moving. 

 

Staying the Course When Loved Ones Don’t Understand 


Even those dearest to you can, out of love, tempt you to detour. Job’s wife feared prolonged suffering, the prophetic students feared Elisha’s disappointment, the Hebrew youths’ compatriots feared royal wrath. Today, your spouse might urge you to settle for a lukewarm Christian life; colleagues might mock your refusal to cut ethical corners; friends might caution you against “wasting time” in prayer or ministry. 


Here are three practical guardrails: 

  1. Revisit the Map Daily—Scripture. Keep Matthew 7:13-14 and other key verses in front of you. Allow God’s Word to redraw your GPS every morning. 

  2. Travel Light. Shed resentment, comparison, and secret sin that slow you down (Hebrews 12:1). 

  3. Find Small Packs of Fellow Travelers. The narrow road is lonely, not solitary. Connect with believers who prize integrity over popularity. 

 

When the Obstacles Feel Overwhelming 


Some days the narrow path looks more like a cliff. If that’s you, remember: 

  • Struggles confirm you’re on the right highway. Satan does not waste artillery on harmless tourists. 

  • Doubt is a signpost, not a dead end. Bring questions to God; He can handle them. 

  • Jesus already walked—and finished—the path. He calls you to follow Him, but He also empowers you to make it. 


Harvest Ahead—If You Keep Walking 


Every example we explored shows the same pattern: pressure ➜ perseverance ➜ promotion. The pressurized middle felt eternal, yet breakthrough arrived on time. Your “due season” may involve restored health, financial provision, fresh anointing, or doors to minister that once seemed bolted shut. Trust the timetable of the God who authored the way. 


Now it’s your turn. Which stretch of the narrow road are you navigating right now? Have friends or family urged you to veer onto the wider, easier lane? Share your story—or a verse that keeps you moving—in the comments below. Your testimony could be the mile marker someone else needs today. 

 

 

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